Riding the river... ...If you want to survive the rapids of life, you"ll need to stop trying to change the river and learn to change yourself... · Learn to examine the real cause of your frustrations · Learn to redefine yourself · Learn to reflect, focus and strategize before taking action · Learn to allocate your resources and understand the power of process · Take control of your life · Stop contributing energy to everything you hate, and start contributing energy to what you love · Learn to attract, nurture, understand and influence the people around you · Learn to read the river"s currents and to let life flow