Isca offers sage tips on how to avoid complications that arise with children at Mass. They range from discreet diaper-changing, nursing in public, and appropriate toys to bring to church, to tips on how to skillfully block out brothers and sisters from each other who get too playful among themselves. Reading Isca"s discourse through the eyes of the right philosophy, form and realism rquired in churching our children teaches usthat etiquette is a unifying force parents need to cultivate in order to stay composed when they feel beleaguered, when their children become overly rambunctious, and when nasty looks from the congregation threaten to unravel them.