As I walked down the aisle, I had all sorts of ideas about marriage. Like many, I created a perfect picture of married life that was a fairy tale. I had to renew my mind to God"s picture of marriage, not mine. Becoming Wives Who Please God is a journey from inward focus to outward love, from what is wrong to what is right, from the few annoyances to the many blessing, from cool coexistence to warm intimacy. By drawing closer to God, we learn how to love, encourage, respect, forgive... A growing and healthy marriage doesn"t come from pleasing yourself; it comes from pleasing God.