A recently updated and revised edition with a new intro by the author. (Over 2.2 million copies sold). As Kavanaugh says in his introduction: "Friendship is freedom, is flowing, and is rare... It trusts, understands, grows, explores... It does not exhaust or cling, expect or demand. It is and that is enough and it dreams a lot. Will YOU Be My Friend?" Thousands of couples have found the key to their relationship in this book. Individuals who where too frightened to love felt their hearts begin to open. It is probably Kavanaugh’s most popular book with students.