Losing Him, Gaining You: Divorce as Opportunity knows the importance of taking time to grieve (and rant) about the end of your marriage, but then invites you to start focusing on what you want, rather than focusing on what you don"t have. The book uses research and personal stories from divorced women to coach readers through this tumultuous time. With humor and encouragement, Losing Him, Gaining You assures you that you aren"t alone on this path and you may eventually like where you"re going. At the forefront of all of this guidance is you. Because knowing what you want is the biggest step towards ensuring you can have it.