Growing up gay in a homophobic culture can resemble growing up in a dysfunctional family. Reclaiming Your Life offers a soothing approach to healing from homophobic abuse, addictions, and self-defeating behavior."If you are a gay man who grew up in a dysfunctional family or were abused, be kind to yourself and read this book. It"s full of validation, understanding, common sense, and wise guidance, like a good friend."-Ellen Bass, coauthor of The Courage to Heal"a wealth of information it should be required reading for all gay men and their loved ones."-Lambda Book Report