This book is about my true experiences with divorce, remarriage, and the securing of my children from their natural mother, without tearing everyone apart, by offering a warm and loving atmosphere and letting the children decide their future. As you read this, please keep in mind that I never thought this would happen. I remarried a wonderful woman who had three daughters. We started out with nothing, renting a totally furnished cottage, that even included the dishes, pots, pans and knick-nacks. Without any difficulties, we became a new happy family. When my five children came for their first visit, they saw love, happiness , laughter and warmth. One by one, on later visits, they started to call my wife "mother" and her children called me "dad." Things just happened and one of my daughters asked my wife if she could call her "mother" because she was "more like a mother should be" it blew our minds.