"JoAnne Pedro-Carroll, Ph.D., stands alone in her combination of groundbreaking research, keen clinical insights, and unmatched sensitivity to children"s struggles through divorce."ùROBERT E. EMERY, Ph.D., professor of psychology and director of the Center for Children, Families, and the Law at the University of Virginia The breakup of a family can be challenging for children and have an enduring impact on their emotional health. But as Dr. JoAnne Pedro-Carroll explains with clarity and compassion in this powerful book, parents can dramatically change these effectsùand positively shape their child"s future. The key is proven, emotionally intelligent parenting strategies that promote children"s resilience and their ability to lead successful, satisfying lives. A leading psychologist and expert with more than three decades of experience, Dr. Pedro-Carroll has helped thousands of families navigate divorce and its aftermath. Backed by the latest research, she shares practical advice that helps parents: Decode the hidden emotions behind the words and behaviors children useùand soothe their secret fears Create parenting strategies that balance boundless love with clear limits and strengthen relationships with children Reduce conflict, promote their own well-being, and protect children from the toxic effects of ongoing hostility Develop flexible, responsive, and cooperative parenting plans that put the needs of children first Successfully navigate transitions in remarried families Filled with the honest and insightful voices and drawings of children, as well as inspiring stories of families, Putting Children First delivers a positive message full of hope and healing.