This book will not tell you what to do rather, its intention is to explain what you need to consider now that you are separated and the forms that need to be completed. The blessing of having this book is that you can read it one page at a time in your own time, and when you choose to seek advice whether independently from a solicitor or alternatively, mediation with your ex-partner, on a positive note you will be aware of the process and hopefully, feel more able and comfortable to make decisions.