Renowned psychologist and frequent guest of The Oprah Winfrey Show reveals the secrets to building a lasting and happy marriage. For those who are about to walk down the aisle, those who are already married, and those contemplating a deeper commitment, Dr. Robin Smith"s Lies at the Altar addresses the unspoken needs, unasked questions, outrageous expectations, and hidden agendas that damage relationships. By examining traditional, nondenominational wedding vows, Dr. Robin shows how to use them to build a happy, healthy, satisfying, and long-lasting marriage. With moving stories and personal anecdotes, Dr. Robin reveals how to write rules to live by, and why it"s never too late to rewrite wedding vows. Especially useful are her 276 Questions to Ask Before You Marry, which will open new lines of communication and help couples to create their own Truth the secret ingredient to any great marriage.