Beyond Blame
Цена 17.12 - 25.77 USD
Conflict is an unavoidable part of life. Everyone has at least one relationship that is in conflict, whether it?s with a family member, a co–worker or boss, a teacher, a friend, or a lover. And while it is common to blame others for the conflict, this type of strategy usually makes things worse. Conflict, says Jeffrey A. Kottler, is an interactive process—you cannot look at a person who makes life difficult for you without also looking at yourself. While blaming others may lead to short–term relief, it often escalates conflicts and produces long–term damage. Kottler shows that to contend with conflict we must first understand the problem, then take responsibility and change our own roles. Kottler explores the patterns of conflict in our lives and tells how to identify the unresolved issues within us that contribute to recurring problems. Beyond Blame presents specific advice on conflicts in love, conflicts at work, and what to do when conflicts cannot be resolved....