Bestselling author Philip Van Munching and psychotherapist Dr. Bernie Katz team up to show readers * how even our earliest childhood experiences dictate our relationship choices, * how the unconscious elements of our personalities both attract and repel the people we become romantically involved with (often at the same time!) *why breaking up is hard to do * how to use this insight to fix their relationships Dr. Katz"s 25+ years of experience as a couples therapist informs this book, while Van Munching"s solid sense of humor and conversational style brings readers a relationship book that is warm, funny, fascinating and readable.